This is an excellent dating programme, but it is also a great life programme. It can help you on so many areas, not only on the dating/relationship level.
This does exactly what it suggests, gives you 77 laws of success with women and dating. You can consider these as the laws of dating. This programme gives you the short hand easily available information that you want.
Purpose of this programme is to educate you on the laws of dating and how they can be used to improve your dating skills overall.
1. Accept everything the way it is
* Don�t live in a pretend world
2. Take Responsibility
* Be some that makes something happen
* Can�t control outside yourself
3. Go to work on yourself, not women
4. Evict your inner Wussy
5. Build a powerful self image that you love
6. Make your frame of reference inside
* External frame of reference � Worried what others think and if you�re pleasing them
* Inner frame of reference � Make your own decisions to make your life better
7. Stop making indentify meaning out of external events
* Don�t think �I�m a bad person� because someone said you are
8. Failure
* Failure is a made up thing, don�t apply meaning to failure
9. Compare your progress and success only to yourself
* Everyone wants to be a winner
* 2 types of winning:
1. Achieving what you want
2. Beating someone else
* 2 is bad because you don�t get what you want
* Run your own race
10. Evolve constantly and consciously
* Always seek the next level
* �We�re all on the train tracks and the train is coming, most people look down and try to occupy themselves�
* You can�t evolve longer than your lifespan
11. See yourself as �high Status�
* Build yourself a high status self image
12. Stop Apologising
13. Stop seeking approval
* Approval seekers - Does things so the social group will accept them
* You don�t need approval from others
14. Stop giving approval to get it
15. Stop trading status for approval
16. Untangle things like present and future
* Past, present and future
* Physical, emotional
* Sit down for 60 seconds and consider the short, medium and long term status
* Human are terrible at predicting how we�re going to feel in the future � Fear of something in the future
17. Surround yourself with success authors
18. Know your purpose or path in life
* �Man, who chooses 2 rabbits, catches none�
19. Travel
* If you�re not regularly leaving your bubble you are limiting yourself, not much development
20. Everyday find your centre and then make yourself centre
* Make yourself the centre � Notice it�s all your reality
* Notice your breathing
21. Focus on the core skills
* Focus on core skills and techniques, rest will handle themselves
22. Accept and embrace transition anxiety
* Transition anxiety comes on when you start new things � Fear of looking stupid or incompetent
23. Teach others something great you�ve learnt
* Makes you learn what you teach much better
24. Never whine or complain
* Never criticise or complain about anything or anyone
25. Objectify your dreams so you control them
* Objectifying is to witness and understand what is happening
26. Become selfish so you can become generous
* Make yourself important first as main priority, this way you can fill your mind with useful things so you can give them back
27. Surround yourself with successful models and eliminate negative models
* Areas in life that are pulling you down � failure minding people
* Your sub-conscious absorbs negative stuff as well
28. Keep doing what works and stop doing what doesn�t
29. Maintain your composer
30. Prove to yourself over and over that you can cope with �rejection�
* Realise you�re ok
* Realise them rejecting you does not need to effect you
31. Learn how to always enjoy yourself
* You are responsible for generating your own focus of reality
32. Learn to sacrifice short term gratification for long term gratification
33. Value yourself and your time more than any woman
34. Develop your awareness
* Notice everything you see
35. Learn to control your emotions
* Emotions are miracles � Control motivation, learning ability � Everything
* Emotions are the most addictive chemicals in the universe
36. Become unbelievable honest and direct when needed to
* More you do it the more people will respect you and value you as a high status person
* Tell them right or wrong i their doing something
37. Learn to identify social status by communication and body language instantly
* A high status person is looking away while talking
38. Become an expert on your own self-deception
39. Balance learning, practicing and doing
40. Constantly improve yourself
* You�re not done when you achieve something
41. Stop projecting your strengths and weaknesses on to others
* Characteristics you hate in a person are what you hate in yourself � What you like in others is also what you like in yourself
42. Eliminate deconstructive habits
* Notice negative habits before they happen then change their directions to positive
43. Recognise when you�re losing control over yourself and just stop
44. Make your territory yours
* We don�t really get a chance to use our territorial instinct so we tend to use it in a negative way
* If someone says something or is annoying tell them to leave
45. Lead
* Definition of leadership isn�t controlling people and stopping them screwing up, it is to find effective people and organise them
* Study leading and leadership
* Leaders naturally attract women
46. Stop idealising women when you interact with them
* Stop making her into the perfect woman with no flaws
47. Stop idealising relationships
* A relationship isn�t perfect and won�t make other areas of your life perfect
48. Let her problems be her problems
* Lets her mature better
* Her problems aren�t your problems � She made them
* If you help sort out her problems you are robbing them from their opportunity to mature
49. Don�t try to control her by giving money
* If you give gifts etc and she doesn�t appreciate them, you will resent her and it will be bad
* If you try to control a woman, you have a problem in yourself to sort out
50. Stop trying to impress women
51. As you learn pay constant detail to your hygiene, dress and posture and all details
* Keep doing it until it becomes a habit
* Respect yourself and constantly look at your details
52. Eliminate nervous tics and unconscious behaviours
53. Make yourself into the most interesting person a woman has ever met
* Look into the world and see what are the most interesting things in the world � on average, not what you think
* Learn how to tell stories
54. Setup your life so you are constantly meeting interesting, attractive, available women automatically
* How could you setup your life to meet them automatically?
55. Behave as if you have a 100 women calling you every day
* How would you act if 100 women were calling you daily?
56. Don�t be boring or predictable
* Don�t let other people guess what is going to happen
* Boredom � When nothing interesting is happening around you
57. Learn how to tell an interesting story about anything
* Interesting stories are like operas
58. Make friends with attractive women by becoming a guy women want to be around
* Have them the same as the women you�d like to attract
59. Learn how to turn a woman on mentally, emotionally and physically
60. Learn the entire mating process of humans
61. Learn how to read situations before acting
62. Tease in every way
* Don�t tease in a mean way
* Don�t tease predictably
* Give something and take away
63. Be honest, authentic with women at all times
64. Set a boundary as soon as possible
* �Don�t touch me� � Says your aware what�s going on
* If she does something that isn�t acceptable tell her to stop
* Let women know you are an aware individual
65. Look past the content to see the true meaning of what�s going on
66. Engage her emotions and her body, not so much her mind
* Using logic to turn her on is bad
67. Turn everything into an adventure
* Take a woman to run errands even if you�ve just met her
68. Convince yourself that what is going to happen is going to be unbelievably fun and convince her of it
* Have fun always
69. Always act and communicate to leave her wanting more
* What to do � End everything she is enjoying and end it on an up note
70. When you hit a challenge or setback, go back to the basics
* Do not act out of desperation
71. When you find yourself losing power with a woman step back and get her to come to you
* When you think the relationship is going to fail, stop the relationship � End on good terms, you end it
72. Always have 3 female friends around you who are similar to the ones you�d like to meet
* Get 3 female friends
73. When you find something she really likes, stop, pull back until she really wants it
74. Learn how to make conversations interesting for the woman
* Listen to conversations women have
* They don�t want a male girl-friend
75. Learn what it is to be a �renaissance man� then become one
* Renaissance the time period
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